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If he was already upset with you then he probably just doesn’t want to deal with you for the time being. To be perfectly honest I have no Idea what he’s thinking. Half a year ago, I was definite that he was interested in me.
It kind of sounds like he wants to be done and you aren’t taking it well. Try to think about whether the way you guys act around each other is different than when you were going strong. Any more advice I try to give you would be me just making things up. But a few months ago, he suddenly no longer seems interested.
If you want some advice from a dude I’d be willing to help. To me it sounds like your tendency is to over-complicate and over-analyze.
If your guy is like me, that will make him want to shut down rather than open up.
What you do with that info is up to you really, but I wouldn’t suggest trying to change. Fight or move on, but I would suggest strong action either way. Yeah it might hurt more, but risk reward and all that… If you want some advice from a dude I’d be willing to help. To me it sounds like your tendency is to over-complicate and over-analyze.
Now here’s the deadly part: Most people assume that the only way to get rid of this awful feeling of insecurity is to put yourself out there or lock him down or blame him for “making” you feel this way. If in a year or so he says he made a mistake – you get to decide. He told me how much he liked me and he actually showed it.
The other day he told me he was ready for a relationship and that we don’t really know each other well enough yet to date. So I was talking to my friend the other day and I asked him if he ever liked me and he said yes and I was like since when and he was like since the day we started talking until I think right now and I’m not sure if he does or doesnt I have had a crush on a principal at a school where I work. We both have been flirting a lot in the hallways with sparking to one another and small conversation. I’m 41 and he’s 40 and yes, I know we are both grown and both very attractive.
But before all this happened we made plans to go to a concert together this week and we are still going together. He told me he still wants me in his life but just doesn’t want to get hurt again. A boy told me he likes me on the last day of school! We just recently exchanged numbers and talked briefly on one night. While we were leaving, he asked me to go somewhere with him real quick and so I did. Anyway one thing lead to another and although we didn’t have sex, I gave oral. I just don’t know if I should call or wait for him to call.
His reply was “stop it” after a couple msgs back and forth he ends up blocking me without saying.
Is there no way to get him back and give me yet another chance??
If he was already upset with you then he probably just doesn’t want to deal with you for the time being. To be perfectly honest I have no Idea what he’s thinking.